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Ex wants $$, and to take baby to Greece

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 12:36:26 GMT

Q. I am a German citizen living and working in the U.S.  I had a relationship with a former colleague who was here from Greece but returned there.  Six months ago, I had a baby here who is a U.S. citizen but also has rights to German and Greek citizenship.  I listed him on the birth certificate.  When she was born, he and I were getting along.  He signed the papers so I was able to get her a U.S. passport to take her to Germany over Christmas.Things have gone downhill recently.  He is not working and insists that I have to pay him child support because he needs to maintain a home for her to spend time in with him.  His mother calls me almost daily demanding that I let my daughter spend the summer in Greece.  The father wants to come here and visit but wants me to pay for all of his travel including visiting relatives in Los Angeles and Chicago.I am concerned he is going to come here to visit, get our daughter a Greek passport and leave the country with her.  Can I do anything to pre...

Jacob loves rap music & video games

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 12:36:26 GMT

Jacob, who likes to go by Jake, is an athletic teenager. Jake enjoys engaging in activities like fishing, swimming, and basketball. He also has shown interest in lacrosse and martial arts. Jake is performing at grade level and enjoys spending time with his peers at school.His social worker feels he would do best in a family with at least one female. Jake would do well with older children in the home or children similar in age. He would do best in a home that is active and has clear expectations.Can I Adopt?If you’re at least 18 years old, have a stable source of income, and room in your heart, you may be a perfect match to adopt a waiting child. Adoptive parents can be single, married, or partnered; experienced or not; renters or homeowners; LGBTQ+ singles and couples. As an adoptive parent, you won’t have to pay any fees, adoption from foster care is completely free in Massachusetts.The process to adopt a child from foster care includes training, interviews, and home visits to dete...

Put a local spin on Record Store Day

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 12:36:26 GMT

Record Store Day is April 22. You can celebrate locally at Newbury Comics and Vinyl Index and Somerville Grooves and a dozen other record shops. Want the local connection to go a little deeper? Go to a Boston area shop and buy one of these three RSD-exclusive releases with a Boston connection (and one that has nothing to do with our city but is too good not to pick up).“Live & Dangerous Boston 1976,” Peter ToshEverybody knows the Wailers. Everybody should know Word, Sound and Power.After Peter Tosh split from Bob Marley’s outfit – he had too many great songs of his own to record – Tosh formed backing band Word, Sound and Power. This 1976 concert from Boston, available for the first time on vinyl, is a testament to that band’s might and malleability. On a collection of Tosh’s recently written gems, his musicians stretch and contract, build towers of rock and wallow in fat, loose reggae grooves.When Tosh does a tender tune such as “Why Must I Cry,” the band sits back. When he boom...

Editorial: Boston Stronger!

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 12:36:26 GMT

Writing “anniversary” this weekend is too celebratory. It’s the last word to use when recalling the heartless bombing at the Boston Marathon a decade agoAnniversary is for the Fourth of July or a wedding day, unless you’re divorced.Words matter and the running of the marathon tomorrow is an example of the resilience and determination of this city — not about two Chechen terrorists who brought anguish to the finish line.It’s not an anniversary — it’s a day when we double down on what it means to be a Bostonian. We’re a tough bunch. The weather can be crazy and beautiful — sometimes on the same day. Our loyalty can be obnoxious or admirable. We can be guarded or genuine, depending on the occasion.The bombs that went off on Boylston Street 10 years ago yesterday shattered lives and resulted in a deadly week as cowards Tamerlan and Dzhokhar Tsarnaev attempted to run. They didn’t get past the gauntlet of police who drew th...

Leubsdorf: A spoiler alert for 2024 presidential election

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 12:36:26 GMT

Throughout modern American history, opponents of the two major parties have sought to shake up the political system by creating so-called third parties to give voters an alternative to the Democrats and Republicans.Some have attracted substantial votes, but none has won. Initial polling strength tends to drop as elections near. In 1992, billionaire computer tycoon Ross Perot momentarily led both major candidates but eventually dropped to 19%, still the most for any modern independent.Perot carried no states, almost certainly affecting the outcome less than the debate. Several other independents have had a greater impact, but usually as spoilers who tilted the ultimate result.That could well happen again in 2024 — most likely helping Donald Trump and the Republicans — thanks to plans by an independent group called No Labels to field an independent ticket in as many states as possible.No independent candidacy has had more of an impact than former President Theodore Roosevelt’s 1912 de...

Goldendoodle’s spoiling for a fight

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 12:36:26 GMT

Dear Dr. John,My wife and I have a two-year-old Goldendoodle and a four-year-old mixed breed Shepherd. Every time the Doodle sees another dog, he wants to lunge and get into a fight. Thankfully, we always have him on leash. Despite that, he has gotten to two dogs and broken their skin fighting for which I had to pay the vet bill. Now, even our own two dogs seem to get grumpy with one another. Can you share any possible solutions that might curb his aggression? What could be the cause? We have had him since he was a puppy, he is neutered and healthy, and always sweet with all people. We are at wits end. W.S.Dear W.S.,Sometimes, one does not know the causative agent behind any given dog’s aggressive tendencies. It might have been one episode of which you were completely unaware, there could be an underlying health issue. Sometimes there was a lack of socialization as puppies, sometimes it is being protective of you or possessive behavior, and the longer it is allowed to continue, it c...

‘Marvelous Mrs. Maisel’ focused on No.1 as series wraps up

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 12:36:26 GMT

Amy Sherman-Palladino specializes in unusual love stories. “Gilmore Girls,” her breakthrough series, celebrated a mother-daughter bond, one strengthened by their mutual love for junk food and quipping like Rosalind Russell in “His Girl Friday.”In “The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel,” her second masterpiece, the lead character has never had much time for her kids. She’s been too obsessed with another passion: herself.You may not have noticed that selfish streak when the show first premiered on Amazon Prime in 2017. We were too busy admiring the brilliant zingers and collection of hats.Watching a 1950s-era housewife rise through the stand-up comedy ranks in New York City was the perfect premise for a fashion show. The costumes, Skittles-colored backdrops and nods to the past were straight out of an old MGM musical.That trend continues in the final nine episodes, three of which premiered Friday (subsequent ones will drop every Friday).Midge Maisel’...

Should you follow your dream – or stick to day job?

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 12:36:26 GMT

Q. My ultimate career goal is to work in marketing for a movie studio, move to L.A., the whole nine yards. But I am working two jobs in retail and really like it! Should I ditch the day dream and stick with retail?A. First, I want to commend you on two things: for having a specific dream and second, for enjoying your current jobs.As for ditching the dream and sticking with retail, only you can decide that, but let’s dive into some action steps that can help you make this decision. (And dear reader, this may apply to you, too — what if you’ve had a dream and a new skill/interest/role ignited a spark along the way? Questions of when to you drop it, should you still pursue it, regrets of “what if” are common questions.) My initial reaction: Pursue both. Career paths aren’t necessarily always linear and upward — there’s some zigging and zagging at times.You may want to put pen to paper or type in the notes section of your phone, put your p...

Looks like the jig is up for Bill Hader’s hitman in last season of ‘Barry’

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 12:36:26 GMT

The fourth and final season of HBO’s “Barry” returns with its title character, the ex-Marine turned hitman (turned actor, turned abusive boyfriend), behind bars and about to go down for at least one of his crimes. Everything’s come to a head. Or has it?The show’s co-creators Alec Berg and Bill Hader (Hader also stars) keep us guessing while exploring a larger, tantalizing theme: Can you ever really start over — whether that means mending a toxic relationship, or going legit, or simply running away from your past? Maybe it’s an impossibility in the end. We are who we are. You can never right these kinds of wrongs.Barry has always been an elusive character, both self-hating and entitled, and one of the show’s strengths is how well it captures that inner chaos and shame. He’s incapable of real honesty, even with the man in the mirror, which has led to all kinds of erratic behavior. He thought acting might give him something — truth, relief, a sense of self — but like everything else in...

Catch the Ocean Race in Newport for a great seaside adventure

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 12:36:26 GMT

After next month, Newport, Rhode Island’s reputation as a premier sailing spot will be even stronger.From May 13-21, the Ocean Race (https://www.theoceanrace.com), one of the world’s most challenging, exciting and iconic races, will drop anchor in the scenic city.It will be no mere “see amazing ships up close” event. Rather, it’s nearly two weeks of exciting race views, hands-on learning for all, live music, food and most of all, seaside (and on the sea) fun for the entire family. Sail Newport has it all planned (https://theoceanracenewport.com).The Ocean Race, one of sail racing’s top three events, is described by many as the toughest professional sporting event in the world.This year is the third time The Ocean Race uses Newport as a port of call.When they arrive in Newport, they will have been sailing fast and hard since January, completing 28,650 nautical miles of open ocean racing between Alicante, Spain to, Cabo Verde, Cape Town, and through the Southern Ocean up to Brazil.The...